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Connections & partnerships with local businesses (3 of 3)

A local tanning and waxing salon emailed our church with the following request: “Each Xmas I have helped different charities and have managed to get our clients to contribute to give as well each year! This year I personally want to help 3 different families in our area locally that need some help this year. I [...]

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Connections & Partnerships with local businesses (2 of 3)

This is a partnership the team for I Heart Kirribilli came up with for a local business: Seeking prosperity. Raised the profile of the cafe within our church & local community (online & offline) Mutually beneficial. See the first post in this series

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Connections & partnerships with local businesses (part 1 of 3)

Churches will often say that they are looking for ways to connect with and serve local residents, workers, and businesses. What does this look like? In particular how do you seek ways to connect and seve local businesses? Some do’s and don’ts in connecting & serving businesses: Pursue mutually beneficial partnerships - Don’t exploit local businesses. Often churches only approach businesses to get something [...]

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If you thought the @ChristExplored website was good…

If you thought the Christianity Explored website was good… then you NEED to check out their new iPhone app.

The folk at Christianity Explored are going strength to strength with their resources for evangelism and this new iPhone app is in a league of its own.

  • Its clean and fresh, with a contemporary design and format that is accessible to people used to excellence.
  • Has all the benefits of their website content on your iphone.
    • Answers to the simple question about What Christianity is.
    • Videos of people answering tough questions. Really helpful stuff.
    • Clips from a wide variety of people who’ve come to know and love Jesus for themselves. Powerful stuff.
  • This material is succinct, relevant and most importantly biblical truth!
  • PLUS easy access map to see where you can go and sign up to the Christianity Explored course.

This is just another reason why the Christianity Explored course is such a great evangelistic course to run at your church. The support resources are unrivalled. The DVDs are well produced (I like DVDs because I feel it allows people to disagree with content more and really thrash about ideas).

Anyway…

Why not download the app, use it with your friends and family and be sure to rate the app on iTunes. Show a little love to Christianity Explored, they deserve our partnership in the gospel!

The bumpy road of faith…

You accept an invite to come along to church with a friend.

You find the people friendly.

You come back a second week.

You end up having dinner with the friendly people after.

You miss a week.

You come back for a third time.

You actually found the sermon interesting.

You hear about [insert evangelistic course name here] that the church is running.

You sign up and attend the [insert evangelistic course name here]

You begin to see how Jesus & Christianity seems to make sense of the world.

You get a bible given to you from your friend.

You understand more of the sermons preached at Church.

You miss a week at church to go to family dinner.

You read the bible most days.

You tell your friend who brought you first to church: ‘I prayed for the first time this week… I can’t believe how much sense Jesus makes, thanks so much for bringing me along to church’

You choose to join a mid week bible study group.

You love Jesus.

You get thrown a curve ball at work, its really stressful.

You love Jesus but realising the more life needs to change.

You’ve been coming to church for 4 months now.

You don’t even care now the taunts from your family that you are ‘a good church goer now’.

You don’t feel like you are chasing after something when you drink, you just drink a glass now because it’s refreshing.

You realise the way you have been living for the last 29 years has had the wrong focus all these years.

You know of the freedom that comes with being a ‘child of God’. You now the love and security that only can come from God.

You keep finding amazing things while reading the bible and have heaps of questions.

You get thrown another curve ball this time its concerns with your family.

You begin to find your non-Christian friends difficult and selfish.

You wonder whether they were ever your friends in the first place.

You feel like you don’t know the people at mid-week bible study well enough yet to share with them the trouble going on…

You know Jesus’ forgiveness well.

You are convicted you should really forgive [insert name of family member] for the hurt they have caused over the years and currently.

You struggle to cope with the stress at work.

You struggle to really surrender all things you’ve enjoyed freely for the last 29 years.

You wrestle every morning with the stress of your family.

You pull out of mid-week bible study to begin to cope with the demands of life.

You go to dinner for your twin brothers birthday instead of church one week.

You haven’t been to church in 6 months.

You are still friends with the friend that took you to church, but you find it hard to talk about what’s going on with your faith.

 

*Based on a the story of a friend of mine. Join with me in asking God to hold on tight to them and the many other wandering & lost sheep.

“Jesus sought me when a stranger,
Wandering from the fold of God;
He, to rescue me from danger,
Interposed His precious blood;
How His kindness yet pursues me”
-Robert Robertson 

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How to invite a friend to church (or church-y event)…

Many of us cringe at the prospect of inviting friends or neighbours to church. Which is unfortunate, because our weekend services provide great opportunities every week for those you know to sit under the sound of the powerful gospel and be changed by it. (Romans 1:16)

These are just 5 tips that may help ease some of the cringe and fear!

  1. DEPEND ON GOD
    Appeal to God’s promise to soften hearts to the gospel (Ezekiel 11:19) and ask God to open a door to opportunities with those you know. (Colossians 4:3)
  2. BE A GOOD FRIEND
    Invite those you know into your life long before inviting them to church. Unbelieving friends have lots to offer us, they are a good gift from God and God calls us to love our neighbours, even if we don’t always get to explicitly kick goals in sharing the gospel or inviting them to something.
  3. CROSS POLLINATE
    I recommend this idea a lot as a top tip in personal evangelism, mainly because I think it affirms us that we don’t have to do it alone. God has richly blessed us with church family to partner with us. Seek out ways to introduce those you know to others at church (try a new restaurant together, take your kids on a play date or the have birthday drinks who’d say no to celebrating your birthday with you). And if your friends connect well, hang out again. Hopefully when those you know do rock up to church they’ll see a sea of familiar faces.
  4. TALK ABOUT CHURCH
    Many of our friends have skewed ideas about church or just have no idea what goes on here. I believe the more we talk about church; the more we help demystify church and break down misconceptions. Help those you know see that church is about getting to know God and his people, not rules and tradition. Talk about the benefits of belonging. Share about the exciting ministries and lives you are involved in.
  5. SIMPLY INVITE
    ‘Hey, what are you doing Sunday night, want to come along to church with me?’ or “My church is hosting an Art Exhibiton and Prize, want to grab some dinner in Kirribilli and have a look?” or “There is a mens meat night coming up at my church, want to come along?” If they say no, don’t become discouraged and don’t give up. Continue to be their friend, and wait for other opportunities to arise. When the timing seems right, ask them again.

We should all look forward to meeting each others friends at church, evangelistic evnets or at some social function.

Oh and… just a small favour, please be nice to my friends when they come along! ;)

 

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2 tips for witnessing in the everyday…

We often think our testimony is the story we have when we first came to Christ. Many Christians find their story boring or not worth telling because they have always been a Christian and always loved Jesus.

  • TIP #1:   Share what it is like to live as a Christian:
    • Ask yourself regularly ‘how does my faith in Jesus put perspective on my everyday activities and attitudes’?
  • TIP #2:  Be honest about the joys, the struggles, & the benefits
    • Ask yourself regularly ‘What is God teaching me through this experience?’


Example from my life…

“I’m learning lots about myself lately… I’ve realised that pride is a massive issue for me? And I hate it… You see, I was encouraged by some friends to “think” about a boy as “potential” but I found ti so hard to consider it because I thought I was better than him and that he would be batting far above his average. Turned out this guy and I became good friends and I began to crush on him, only to be turned down by him, cause he didn’t like me. I was hurt, insulted and so humiliated: to be turned down by someone you think you are better than. This attitude stinks… pride is disgusting. What makes me better than someone anyway. Yuck. Pride is really quite ugly!”

I used this experience to show my unbelieving friends my sin. They thought I had every right to think of myself better than others, and thought I was being too harsh on myself. But God hates pride, it’s ugly. Great oppotunity to speak gospel truth in the everyday.

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The Art of Conversation – at church

  1. OFFER – Action to gain a reaction.
    A strong offer is an offer that clearly gives a directions into which a scene / the conversation might evolve.
    • My name is Hayley… what have you been up to this weekend?”
  2. ACCEPT – Saying “YES” to an offer.
    Receive an offer allowing conversation to continue. Taking on board what has been said and going along with it.
    • My name is Hayley… what have you been up to this weekend?
    • Oh Hi, Im Bob… yeah I’ve been up to heaps this weekend and thought I’d top it off with church.
  3. BLOCK – Saying “NO” to an offer.
    Conversations can collapse Not accepting other persons offer… destroys offers and conversation. It’s like getting a kite to fly or a fire started…
    • My name is Hayley… what have you been up to this weekend?
    • Oh, Not much. (MIGHT BE PURPOSEFULLY BLOCKING…. Just wants to leave, let them leave. Pray)
  4. EXTEND – Develop or explore the original offer.
    Want to talk more? Then don’t stick with just the offer and accept. Unpack the original offer, ask questions, probe a little and see if this conversation takes off :)
    • My name is Hayley… what have you been up to this weekend?
    • Oh Hi, I’m Bob… yeah I’ve been up to heaps this weekend and thought I’d top it off with church.
    • Sounds exciting – by heaps do you mean…  HEAPS Busy or HEAPS Good?
  5. ADVANCE – Contribute a new idea to move the conversation forward or deeper.
    This is where active listening is important, you may want to revisit something already said. Conversation is where revelation happens. By moving beyond the mundane, we are able to explore the person more and reveal more of ourselves.
    • How come you chose to top it off with church?
    • Would you normally top off your weekend with church?
    • Same here… heaps good… I went off on a weekend away… love spending the weekend out of Sydney… how about you?


*based on drama improvisation principles

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What if… God had a twitter account?

 

Art and About asked Sydney WHAT IF… ?

They have now displayed Sydney’s answers on banners around the City…. Why not use them as stimulus for conversations with your friends, especially banners like this one… Could get you into a great conversation.

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Dear Church…

Dear Church by the Bridge

At our evening services last week Paul Dale preached a cracker of a sermon on Romans 5:12-21, reminding us that nothing stirs the heart for mission quite like knowing the dire situation for people who are still dead in their sin and are yet to know Christ.

Eight years ago I was dead in my sin, a ‘dead-woman-walking’. Looking back, I am so thankful for those who shared the gospel with me. These people loved me when I didn’t want to be loved; they spoke the gospel into my life when I didn’t want them to; and unbeknown to me they were praying for me. They really invested their time and energy into helping me encounter the super abundant grace of God. My whole world and eternity changed when I met Jesus. Hallelujah!

It is my prayer that God would be pleased to use our Church family mightily to impact eternity during our mission week coming up in October. I Heart Kirribilli provides us with an amazing opportunity to invest a bit more of our prayers, time and energy into making connections with friends and the local community, in hope they too would encounter the gospel of Christ and be brought from death to life.

Will you get involved?

There are lots of different volunteer opportunities. Some might seem a little more mundane, unseen, task-focused, or daunting, while other opportunities seem high energy, public, creative or easy. But each area is significant in how we are to effectively enable meaningful connections between people, and between people and God.

Please take a look at the volunteer opportunities form and prayerfully consider how you can use your gifts/skills and where you are willing to serve.

If you are new to Church by the Bridge or you’re looking for a way to serve or want to try your hand at a new ministry, we welcome you to join us on mission! Volunteering during our mission week is a great way to get involved and belong.

In Christ, Hayley Neal
Community Pastor

*To read more of the weekly newsletters and articles written by the pastoral staff at Church by the Bridge, please check out our blog

30 ways to be missional in your workplace

Well, for starters, here are just five:

1. Instead of eating lunch alone, intentionally eat with other co-workers and learn their story.

2. Get to work early so you can spend some time praying for your co-workers and the day ahead.

3. Offer to throw a shower for a co-worker who is having a baby.

4. Create a regular time to invite coworkers over or out for drinks.

5. Invite your co-workers in to the service projects you are already involved in.

For 25 more ways read this article from the VERGE Network

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