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What to say when sharing your God story?

  1. Start with the best part – A moment of clarity in understanding; penny dropping; particular incident where you realised you just acted like a Christian; the questions that made you question/investigate Christianity. What started your faith story?
  2. Keep it about Jesus (and about you.)
    What is the most important detail about Jesus Christ that you have discovered and cherish, when you first were coming to faith? What first / continues to attract you to Christianity and Jesus?
  3. Stress GRACE & the LOVE of God.
    It’s by him who you have been saved… the people, events, circumstances of life were all means by which God worked to bring about your salvation.
  4. Share God’s grace and mercy in your story
    What it is like to live as a Christian. Be honest about the joys, the struggles, the benefits. Try not to make statements that reflect negatively on churches, organisations or particular people. What are one or two changes you have made in your life since becoming a Christian?

6 tips to share your God story

  1. Pray | Ask God to help you think what bits of your life are best to share with which friends.
  2. Keep it personal | Think about who you want to share your story with. Which particular groups or individuals do you have in mind? This will help keep it personable and relevant. Opening yourself up will allow people to ask questions & build integrity.
  3. Keep it short | Under 3 minutes or no more than an A4 page typed. Practice it.
  4. Keep it simple | You don’t need to prove God or the gospel. You are sharing the hope you have with a friend not trying to win public debate. You also don’t need to tell them every different thought and facet of your story.
  5. Keep it real | Don’t imply that life is now perfect… be honest about the life that you are now living and speak boldly about Jesus – he should be the focus.
  6. Keep it natural | Try not to use Christian jargon or words that too easily describe the situation in a vague way. Use words you normally would use and speak in a natural and relaxed way.

WiFi Evangelism…

One of my friends @mikewinram ask this question in a tweet today:
Question: What did you call your wireless network?

But have you ever thought about the evangelistic potential of your wireless network name? Well @mikewinram has. A later tweet reveals that his wireless network is “jesusreigns”.

He claims he is

Trying to convert my building through wireless. So far, 3 people have asked if it is mine, but they already believe.

Why not change bigpond230918 to Jesusreigns, Jesussaves, Jesusloves,  Jesusislord, repent&believe, followJesus, JesusIsAlive, HeIsRisen … the opportunities are endless.

How to make friends…

Wondering how to stay in contact with the world? Or reconnect with people outside your church circles?

Too often we find ourselves without friends who aren’t of faith and we limit the opportunites God might have for us to preach the gospel.
Here are 5 tips to help you maintain contact or reconnect:

1. Spend more time around people.

If you want to make friends with people outside of church and work, you first need to put yourself out there somehow in order to meet people. Friends seldom come knocking on your door while you sit at home watching TV or surfing the net.

2. Join a sports team.

You don’t have to be an elite athlete to join a sports team, but not all teams are so competitive, rather social fitness. As long as you enjoy the sport and support your teammates, joining a local team with a laid-back attitude could be a great way to develop new relationships or to help strenthen exisiting relationships. Why not join a team with a work colle

3. Volunteer

Volunteering is a great way for people of all ages to meet others. Working alongside people who are passionate about helping others or changing things you develop strong bonds.

4. Talk to people.

You can join a club, go to community art school or join a sports group but you still won’t make friends if you don’t actually talk to people. You can talk to anybody: the postman, the person sitting in the sun on a part bench, the person next to you on the bus, or the person in front of you on the lunch line. Don’t be too picky. Most conversations will stop short and not necessarily end up anywhere and you may not ever talk again to the person but who knows maybe once in a while you might actually make a friend.

5. Make eye contact and show your pearly whites: smile.

Check your body language and develop a personable and friendly presence. If you appear unfriendly to people they will be less likely to be friends with you. It is one thing that helps in building report. Try not to frown, squint, fold your arms, stare, or make disinterested looks. Open yourself up to opportunities.

7 habits of highly effective evangelistic people

1. They are people of prayer.

2. They have a theology that compels them to evangelize.

3. They are people who spend time in the Word.

4. They are compassionate people.

5. They love the communities where God has placed them.

6. They are intentional about evangelism.

7. They are accountable to someone for their evangelistic activities.

Written by Thom Rainer. Read his full article here on the Gospel Coalition website.

Easter @ Hillsong London

On Easter Monday, the Australian Christian Channel (ACC) screened SONrise, J John Live at Hillsong London.

I had the channel flickering on in the background, J John started preaching and I couldn’t look around.I have never heard of the preacher but found him to be so faithful, engaging and hilarious. Lots of  jokes and illustrations and tricks for us to think about using in our preaching.

Check out this 8 minute clip: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kPJwb4ymZoI

Or check out his website PhiloTrust

And if you have Friday 9th free… He happens to be here in Sydney this week.

Why not go see him LIVE (and free) at C3′s Presence Conference at Darling Harbour.

6 tips to read the bible with an unbeliever…

  1. Be brave and ask them to read the bible with you.
  2. Start with a gospel and get them a copy.
  3. Make sure they understand they aren’t signing their life away. Give them a time frame… “Let’s do coffee for the next five weeks on Wednesday”.
  4. Understand you are in for a good chance for being stood up. This is much lower on the priority list for them than perhaps you.
  5. Don’t turn it into a lecture. Keep it short and sweet! (45mins?)
  6. Invite others along… don’t limit it to just one person.

How to Argue Like Jesus

5 practical tips for debating other people without starting a fight by John Coleman & Joe Carter

1. Start with Examples Your Audience Will Understand

2. Speak Your Audience’s Language

3. Use Witnesses

4. Know When to Speak …

5. … and Know When to Be Silent

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RELEVANT Magazine

Don’t have the words to describe?

Often enough our stunted vocabulary comes to light. Most often this is seen when time comes for people to tell of the hope they have and express in words to others the transformation that the gospel has been on their life. We can tell each other what we love about the football, love about chocolate, love about our spouses but when it comes to God… the Cross… we seem box the most amazing and significant life event to a pedestrian sentence of truth – he died, I’m saved, forgiven!

Often our testimonies speak of structures and events and churches and people.
We give God the glory by saying it was He who was behind it or God used this conference or this talk and this person to bring the gospel to me. But do we speak of his power and might to use those things to soften the sinners heart?

Often our testimonies speak briefly and in summary of what Jesus now means to us.
We give God the glory by saying it was by faith that I am saved, I did nothing. Its comforting to know that Jesus Christ died for me. But do we speak of his love and compassion or the warmth of his forgiveness or the gratitude that floods our hearts in response to his costly sacrifice?

Often our testimonies descriptively and powerfully speak of our depravity and brokenness and failings.
We give God the glory by listing our sins and the crimes against him we used to commit. We show we are really unworthy of being taken in by him. But do we have the same vivid and expressive words to describe the better life of living for the Prince of Peace instead for the Prince of darkness?

Often when we talk about the boy we have swoon over, or the amazing goal scored in your football match we have a rich vocabulary to speak of the wonder, amazement, love, joy, elation we are feeling and of the thoughts that overwhelm us.

So why don’t we have the words to describe what we think and how we feel about the God of the universe who stepped down from glory into history, as a human to life the life we were meant to and then tasted death so that we don’t have to.

Here is an example of someone who articulates how Jesus really is their Lord, friend, Saviour, and refuge.  It is by an anonymous friend of a friend:

I haven’t found anything or anyone that even compares to Him. And he catches me off guard all the time, because I forget that he is better than I can ever imagine. I look at Jesus and see strength without harshness, tenderness without weakness, humility without the slightest lack of confidence, holiness and conviction without the slightest lack of approachability, power without insensitivity, passion without prejudice and never a moment of inconsistency.

In front of other people, I can hide and pretend to be a good person, and pretend to be impressive. But He sees right through all that. He knows that I have nothing to offer him except foolishness and rebellion. He cuts me open and reveals the biggest weaknesses and failures in my life. He knows that I am worse than I will ever realize, and yet He died for me and loves me more than I could ever dream. There is absolutely no one like Jesus. There is no one who loves me like that. He is utterly amazing and good.

12 Mistakes of Christmas #4… Biting off more than you can chew

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Brainstorming and letting ideas fly are great in getting creativity flowing through the veins of your organising team… however you plans need to be reasonable. You need to think carefully about shaping events and ministry around people and not pushing beyond your limits.

Develop the ideal plan, think about the resources: people power, skill, money, equipment, energy & initiative that is available and work out whether the ideal is realisitic and scale back.

i.e This year at our Carols Under the Bridge event, we dreamt that we wanted to get market food stalls (you know the ones at every market… think Turkish gosleme yum!)… So we tried to make it happen. We approached our local neighborhood centre who helps organise our local markets, they couldn’t help out as they will be too busy around Christmas. We could have organised ourselves, but don’t have the man power and financial resouces to do it this year. It is a cheap thing to do as stall owners need to do their own thing, but if we have food we need port-a-loos and bins which cost more money than we have allowed for this year. So instead we are going with hiring a few coffee cart vans and gelato vans that have a fundraisng element to them. We will keep Market Stall Idea for next year and plan for it earlier.

Not all is lost if you can’t do all that you hope to do. Know your limitations and remember it is better to do a few things well than do 1000 things poorly even if they are all brilliant ideas. Keep the brilliant ideas for next year and store them up in an improvement plan for Christmas. What you dont do this year can go towards making next year better, when your ministry, event or avtictivity has grown momentum and support.

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