3 tips for a missional Christmas
- Throw a block / street Christmas Party.
Get your apartment block together for a party or if you live in an area that has laneways why not a street party? Get some inspiration from one of my dear friends The City Mouse: Good Neighbour plans laneway parties for Surry Hills
Why not do something similar this Christmas? Have on hand flyers to church and invite your guests along. Or perhaps arrange to sing one of your favourite Christmas Carols and share in 1 minute or less why it is your favourite: “its tells me Jesus is… “etc. - Send Christmas Cards
You dont have to buy Cheesy Christian Cards rather buy ordinary Christmas cards and put the gospel in them yourself. As you send cards, pray for the people as you sign off on them and pray also for the people you receive cards from. Or hand deliver a Christmas Card and a gift to your apartment block. Spread the Christmas cheer. - Invite People to Church or to your Carols Event
Most people are up for a good sing-a-long at Christmas or are happy to wave around a candle at a carols by candlelight service… so invite them along. One of the biggest obstacles to our friends/neighbours/collegues/baristas not coming to church are Christmas time, is that we fail to invite them along.
Kiwi’s doing Christmas…
Stumbled across St Paul’s Church, Auckland NZ Christmas stuff:Love it!!
This is a video they created for Christmas 2010
This is the website for their Christmas Carols Event, Glow: Simple & Effective website.
Evangelism Idea: Life Dinners
What are life dinners?
The Hunter Bible Church crew answer:
Simple really. We are praying that groups of people will gather friends and family together for a meal or social event that is explicitly geared towards introducing people to Jesus. We will provide a speaker to do a short 5 minute talk and who can answer questions and you do the rest.
- Could your church be doing something similar?
- What is your church doing to equip and encourage its members to reach those they know with the gospel?
via @SamHilton
Preaching ideas for Christmas Services
- Joy!
- Oh for the joy!
- Joy of every longing heart
- Peace!
- Rejoice! (Augustine)
- Adore!
- Home for the holidays
- Come and stand amazed
- Tiny Baby, Total Saviour
- 12 days of Christmas
- The Manger and The Cross (Bonhoeffer)
- Christmas Travels – God Travels Wonderful Paths (Bonhoeffer)
- The gift of Christmas
- The sounds of Christmas
- Christmas Unwrapped
- Not Only Christmas Day
- Riches
- Wise Men Still Seek Him (Men’s Christmas Event?)
- Recipe For Christmas (Women’s Christmas Event? Gingerbread Event?)
- Feasting
- The Gift that keeps on giving
- Authentic Jesus
- The case for Christmas
- Rediscovering Christmas
- Christmas Around the World
- Family Christmas
- Living Christmas
- Stuck with the same plans for Christmas?
- The best gifts
- This is Christmas
- Simply Christmas
- 3D Christmas
5 tips for inviting friends to church!
Many of us cringe at the prospect of inviting friends or neighbors to church. Which is so sad, because your weekend services are great opportunities for those you know to sit under the sound of the gospel and be changed by it.
These top 5 tips may help ease some of the cringe and fear!
1. DEPEND ON GOD Appeal to God’s promise to soften hearts of those you know (Ezekiel 11:19), to the gospel and to your invitation to Church. Pray also for the strengthening of your friendship and for God to open the door for the gospel and in inviting your friends along. (Colossians 3:4)
2. BE A GOOD FRIEND Invite them into your life long before inviting them to church and love your friends for loves sake. Please don’t feel like you are being a martyr by being friends with an unbelieving friend. Unbelieving friends have lots to offer you and God calls us to love our neighbours as yourselves. He will soften hearts and change lives.
3. CROSS POLLINATE I recommend this idea a lot as a top tip in personal evangelism, mainly because I think it affirms us that w don’t have to do it alone. God has richly blessed us with a believing family to partner with us. Slowly introduce those you know to others at church. Have after work drinks with friends from all your social circles. If friends connect well, seek out ways to get together in the future. The more believers your unbelieving friends feel comfortable around, the less threatening it will be when they rock up to church, for there will be a few familiar faces.
4. TALK ABOUT CHURCH Do your friends and neighbours know you even go to church? The more you share about church, the more you demystify it. Help them see church is about people and God, not about religion and rituals. Talk about the benefits of belonging. Share about the exciting ministries and lives you are involved in. When the opportunity arises, tell them how the church has been a benefiting you in your life.
5. SIMPLY INVITE ‘Hey, what are you doing Sunday night, want to come along to church with me?’ If they say no, don’t become discouraged and don’t give up. Continue to be their friend, and wait for other opportunities to arise. When the timing seems right, ask them again.
There is such thing as a free lunch… #2 WHO
Who is involved in this ministry? Who makes Community Lunches Happen:
- Connect Groups| We urge every Connect Group to take part in one missional activity together in a year. Connect Groups play a key and essential role in contributing to provide a warm and welcoming environment by loving our local community with friendship over a meal.We understand that each individual within Connect Groups have gifts suited to some tasks and not others. Some will better serve with gifts of preparing/cooking the food, others will wait on tables, while some will better serve sitting on tables engaging in conversations. It is our prayer that: “Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God’s grace in its various forms.” - 1 Peter 4:10
- Belinda | Welcoming
Name Tags, Welcome Drinks, Response slips
- Lisa | Kitchen Logistics
Food preparation & Supervise Volunteers
- Megan | MC & Vibe
Grace, Welcome, Notices, Segments, Flow
- Nina | Connect Group Liaison
Prior Training/On-day Briefing of CGp’s
- Hua-Chen | Multicultural Links
Coordinate Chinese translation of bible passages & ideas for ESL
- Brendan | Prayer & Relationship Builder
Sitting on tables and think through things like praying with guests
- Scott | Community Connect Group Leader
Follow Up; give talks
- Hayley | Offsite Lunches & Community Connect Group Leader
Coordinate Offsite Lunches (alternate month); Follow Up
- Other members from Church: all members from our church are invited to particpate, by coming along to enjoy sharing a meal with locals and engage in gospel conversations.
- The Locals: And last but not least – our guests!!! Without the lovely locals in Kirribilli and surrounding suburbs Community Lunches would not happen. We love the many regular faces that join in the fun and contribute to the warm and loving environment at these lunches.
Art and Community
My friend Jenny has again written an article on art.
She wrote:
Art is extremely personal. I like to think of art as a visual diary. Whether the artist intends it or not, when you see their art in the best possible way, you get to see another dimension of them that you may have not known before. I was surprised to catch myself learning new things about each of the artist involved in this project. In a way, I was experiencing the benefits of doing Art in Community…Through the gift of art, we related to one another in a different way.
This is one of the reasons we (Church by the Bridge) hosts I Heart Kirribilli Art Exhibition and Prize. We want to know our neighbours in Kirribilli. We want to know what our neighbours think about the suburb they live in. More importantly we want to SEE what the visual diary of Kirribilli. What the community loves, experiences and knows about Kirribilli.
This year we are inviting Artists to create “AN INTRODUCTION” to Kirribilli. If you had to explain or introduce to a stranger on the street, the suburb of Kirribilli (her people, character, profile, charm), what would you say?
We are pleased to introduce two new categories this year: Graphic Design & Poetry/Prose. (unfortunately this will mean sketch/drawing and fashion will not be prize categories in 2011)
Check the website for more info (Dates, Terms & Conditions plus the online Entry Form etc)
For more about Art in Community from Jenny – click here.
Dear Church…
Dear Church by the Bridge,
Jesus’ interactions with the crowds in Matthew 9:35-38 motivates us to open our eyes to see the crowds around us and also to open our hearts to see them with the heart of God:
“When he saw the crowds, he [Jesus] had compassion on them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd.”
Jesus is filled with a tender concern for the crowds. Jesus saw that they are stressed, vulnerable, pressured, deceived, leaderless, disorientated and powerless!
Often we associate this description of desperation with the materially poor and vulnerable in society. Rarely do we associate such desperation with in our professional, geographical, social or familial networks. We are so readily tempted to think that our friends are all right, comfortable, and in need of nothing, for they are decent people, with nice homes, beautiful clothes and good careers! But Jesus sees them differently. He sees their spiritual brokenness. Do you? Are you filled with compassion for them because they too are harassed and helpless?
All people, whether rich or poor, need to be looked upon with the compassion of Jesus, this includes those you know and even yourself! Tim Keller, the pastor of Redeemer Presbyterian Church, in New York once said:
“The more you see yourself as spiritually poor and the recipient of God’s wonderful grace the more your heart is going to go out to the poor. When you look at the materially poor you know that in a sense you are looking in a mirror.”
The compassion of Jesus is a great leveller. Without it we lose the sweet humility of sharing the treasure we have so freely received. With it we can loudly sing & declare:
“everyone needs compassion, the kindness of a Saviour”.
For Christ’s Fame,
Hayley Neal
(Community Pastor)

September 10, 2011


