Only 2% invite people to church…

Only 2% of church going people ever invite someone to church in a given year.

Church is a great place for you unchurched /non-Christian friends to hear the gospel. If they know you go to church and have asked you a number of questions – maybe you have a foot in to ask ‘hey, if you are keen to come to church sometime let me know’ or ‘if you want why not come check out my church for yourself….’

The sermons preached each week at church are more than often aimed at the believer… but the truths being taught apply to all of God’s creation and so will be a word in season even to our unbelieving friends. The word of God speaks of his grace and mercy and the people of God are testimony to his grace and mercy – why not invite friends along to taste and see.

A challenge to preachers and pastors at churches – we need to create a place where members feel they can bring friends and ensure in your preaching that you address unbelieving friends and their reactions.

How great would it be if we walk out of services saying, “I wish my unchurched friend had been here,” …. the more this happens the more I think we will be ready to invite friends along.

Are You a Trader…

Unlike the Cretens, who “claim to know God, but by their actions they deny him. They are detestable, disobedient and unfit for doing anything good” (1:16) the redeemed people of God are to ” in every way …make the teaching about God our Savior attractive.” (2:10).

How do we make attractive the gospel? Repeatedly throughout the letter of Titus, Paul tells us that it is by trading in foolish talk and unprofitable activity for doing good:

2:7   by doing what is good.

2:14  eager to do what is good.

3:1    to be ready to do whatever is good,

3:8    be careful to devote themselves to doing what is good.
These things are excellent and profitable for everyone.

3:14   learn to devote themselves to doing what is good,

What does it look like to be eager, be ready, be careful, be devoted to doing what is good?
It will mean sacrificially giving time, energy, money, love, compassion, resources, to those who are in need of physical and spiritual need:

  • Meeting 1:1 to read the bible with a new Christian
  • Turning up to church early and leaving late so to chat to new people and love the body of Christ
  • Staying back for work drinks to build relationships with you non-Christian collegues
  • Helping out on outreach events at church
  • See a gap in the ministry at your church – why not take the initative and start something up
  • Go on a short term mission preaching the gospel
  • Being a helper and diligent worker in your workplace
  • Making a phone call
  • Start up a prayer triplet to pray and care for other at church
  • Being regular to your connect group and church to build up the body of believers and show you value them
  • Building a house with Habitat for Humanity
  • Inviting a neighbour over for dinner
  • …. the list of doing good is endless.

But where does all this fit in your week?

Will this mean adding 10 more things to you working week and home life, and be running around like a chook without its head on?

Learn to live a simple life… the sacrifice might not just be the doing good but also in not doing other things. To enable you and free you up to do good – you might actually have to say no to a promotion and be content with the job you have to maintain flexible hours outside of work or maybe saying no to some of your ‘leisure time’… those social events you have to be seen at!!!

Write a list of the things you do in you average week – are they profitable and excellent for everyone… Cull the things that aren’t and start doing more of the things that are.

The BluefishTV website (see image at top of post) talks about life being a TRADER… I think it is a great way of describing the life of one who is eager and careful to do what is good. People who trade extra hours at work, convenience, vacations and the like  in for doing other things which they see to be profitable and excellent for everyone.

Jesus at the Easter Show?

Praise Jesus for Brian Flower a farmer from the Southern Highlands and his idea of pursing opportunites for the gospel at the Easter Show. This is creative thinking about how we take the gospel to people in rural areas as well as the city folk who attend.  “It’s such a no-brainer… I don’t know why we didn’t think of it before.” (Read More about this story at Sydney Anglicans)

Are there other events like this that we have thought about before? Perhaps Carols in the Domain… ???

 

The 12 Mistakes of Christmas… #3 Overlooking the basics

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Preparation and planning is key, otherwise it is so easy to just do the tasks at hand, overlook the basics and excute your plan for Christmas despite not really having a plan. At least three months before Christmas a team needs to be gathered to start planning Christmas, where concepts are developed so that you can begin to plan and schedule putting those ideas into practice.

1. What is your prayer or hope for Christmas this year?
To bring the good news of great joy to all of Kirribilli and celebrate: There is hope for God is with us, the Saviour of the world has been born; he is Christ Jesus the Lord and mighty to save.

2.What are some things you can do to see your hopes happen?
If you want to bring the good news to you local community you need to think about creating opportunities for the gospel to be preached: Christmas Services, Outdoor Carols Service, Caroling, Letterbox dropping gospel track.

3. So who are you trying to reach?
It is important to think about who you intend your audience is. Your advertising, content, activities, time, days, style of your events will differ depending on who your intended demographic is. In Kirribilli we have very few children in our local area so instead of spending lots of our budget in trying to attract families by providing jumping castles, clowns, kindy farm, and the works, we have opted to spend less on kids by providing face painting and some kids showbags. Knowing our demographic is SINKs & DINKS aged 25-40 we can direct most of our energy and resources in attracting them: Hiring good staging, lights, sound… marketing an image that speaks to them… providing quality showbags… tailoring the content of the outdoor service more to adults than to children.

4. What is your desired results? What do you want to see happen as a result to your event?
Do you want visitors to your Christmas events to sign up to the next New Christian type course; ask them to build connections with the church; to check out your website; to make the community aware of your other church activities throughout the year???

5. Does your plan fit your budget?
It’s important to know before you plan to have a rough estimate of the money your church has available for Christmas, but don’t be limited by your budget. If you church isn’t that well off or struggles to find enough money for your big ideas… see if you can find local support (be careful you don’t compromise the gospel platforms); ask a few people at chruch to think about giving specifically or do a collection a November service to ask you congregations to give gernously to the Christmas outreach events.

6. Who is going to develop the big idea?
You need to find people and motivate/empower them to serve and shape a lot of the activities around their gifts and skills, plus ask them what their non-Christian friends would want come and do that. These people need to love the plans and best way for that to happen is for them to develop them themselves. This will ensure seeing them motivate others to help execute the plans.

The life of a musician… Thomas Dethlefs

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How does making music make you feel?
I think music helps you to use your imagination… like guided day dreaming? It can express many things and equally help you feel the things inside you that resonate with what is being played.

Why do you think humanity creates music?
Music is not bound by words, even music with words. The music can add meaning and context to the words, but I think a composer is not bound by words alone to express what feelings are inside, and what beauty, pain, passion, excitement, anger, etc. they see or find outside themselves. I think as human beings we have a need to express ourselves, and to share experience. I think there is also an element of escapism when listening to or playing music. It helps us forget about the ordinary and go to another place.

What do you see as the role of artists and creatives in our society?
I think the work that artists and creative people do helps us to think differently, to look at things in a different way, and to experience things differently. I hope that artists will continue to challenge and provoke us in these ways. I remember the conductor and educator Richard Gill saying to a group of kids at a schools concert something like “I don’t care if you don’t like a piece of music… what I care about is that you have an opinion”. Art requires the audience to participate with their brains. It is the reaction is good. Sometimes it take something shocking to force us to think.

And how about the role of the artist in the Christian community?
I think God gives you gifts, so use them. I don’t think everyone will be able to use all of their gifts and talents in church… that would be funny. You wouldn’t expect a surgeon to do surgery in church, even if it is amazing. I think it is amazing to have so many different kinds of people coming together under God’s teaching to praise and glorify him, and learn and grow in relationship with him and his people. And then to see all of them go out to their different jobs, families, friends and live changed lives that glorify God and point to Jesus.

I am a violinist, but at my church in Sydney I play the drums in the band… playing the drums certainly isn’t my vocation, but it is something I can do to serve people at church and it was something that was wanted and maybe needed. However I find it much more important to care for people, by listening to them, welcoming and befriending them, seeing them outside church things etc. I just want people not to neglect what needs to be done in church, and that isn’t always the thing you are the best at, maybe just competent at… or you are becoming competent at with God’s help.

How does the gospel inform your vocation as an musician?
I love playing music and if I get to do that as a job that is fantastic! I have to consider if that is the best way I can serve God. For now I think it is through music. I think that God puts you in certain places to witness about Jesus in that place. That will probably mean in most settings that colleagues and friends have to see that your life is different, that you care for people, or maybe other things that help them to trust you, before you get to tell them that Jesus loves them and they need saving, and that he is offering that because he died on the cross for them. This is all important work.

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Thomas is a husband to Lizzie and is currently pursuing opportunities with his violin in Berlin, Germany

Things that make the news:

I found the following three headlines in my local paper: The Mosman Daily

Jesus banner taken from tree.
page 2
Cammeray Anglican church JAAL banner taken/stolen.

Bring animals to be blessed, but no wolves.
page 5
Father George Boggs will bless pets at Mosman Festival.

Advice for grieving.
page 20
A new Anglicare counsellling service basted at St Clements Anglican Church, Mosman.

Message & Audience #2: Bubble Boy…

Do you know Christians, who are so Christian, they only know Christians and speak Christian lingo?

Bubble Boy | Pronunciation: \ˈbə-bəl\ ˈboi\ | Function: noun

1. Anyone who person protects themselves in the bubble wrap of Christian community. They only have Christian friends. He is morally pure, loves Jesus, generous and has a willing Spirit, involved in lots of ministries.

2. He is pleasant and polite to his work colleagues, super efficient at work, never goes to after-work drinks for its too hard work and just can’t get his head around their desire to drink so much. She never engages with her colleagues on a personal level- the closest he comes to in doing this is when he tells them they should come to church.

3. He is often heard saying: ‘I don’t like hanging out with the people from work, I have nothing in common with them’.

4. He backs up her lifestyle with the bible verse: 1 Cor 15:33 “Do not be misled: “Bad company corrupts good character.”

5. In doing this, He has a message to share but has no audience of non-Christians with which to share because he avoids relationships with them. He is ineffective in his witness not to mention unlike Christ in his compassion for the non-Christian: “When Jesus landed and saw a large crowd, he had compassion on them, because they were like sheep without a shepherd” Mark 6:34.

READ ALSO: Message & Audience #1: Immersionist

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